12 Ways to Prepare Your Toddler for a New Baby (And Exactly What To Say To Them)

12 Ways to Prepare Your Toddler for a New Baby (And Exactly What To Say To Them)

My babies are 21 months apart, so I was blessed to have two babies under two, and preparing my toddler for a new baby was… challenging. But there are so many nuances to preparing your toddler for a newborn baby.

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Why This Birthday is the Ultimate Test in DGAF'ing

Why This Birthday is the Ultimate Test in DGAF'ing

I am in the mid-life in-between where things are happening with our kids, and things are also happening with our parents, and we’re stuck straddling the two trying to manage the drastic swings in emotions and also be good parents and good children and good husbands and good wives to each other. 

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To My Baby On His First Birthday

To My Baby On His First Birthday

You were born after six intense hours of labor, and 45 minutes of“Oh-fuck-I’m-not-fucking-having-this-baby-in-the-fucking-car-goddamnit!” where your daddy thought for sure I was going to have you in the car. You were born 10 minutes after we got to the hospital in one push.

And you have maintained your all or nothing personality ever since.

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